Friday, July 01, 2005

A Question

Here's an interesting question. You've got a friend you know relatively well. Your friend is married. Completely by happenstance, you happen upon your friend's spouse kissing - petting - with a person who is not your friend.

Do you tell your friend, or just erase it from your memory and forget it?

As far as I know, this does not concern anyone who reads this blog, or anyone who anyone who reads this blog knows.

2 comments:

Roger Whitson said...

Jason,

I'm a little divded on the issue. On the one hand, I'm tempted to say that if the girl made out with someone, she's probably going to do it again. He will eventually find out, and then he can deal with it as he sees fit. This is their relationship and you don't need to be responsible for their relationship.

On the other hand, if you wanted to be more direct, you could confront her with the knowledge and give her the opportunity to admit it to her husband. If she refuses or stalls, you could tell your friend with a clear conscience. The problem with this is you run the risk of being seen as a moralizer and a meddler.

Elizabeth said...

Roger- you assume it was a woman? I find that odd.